PLEASUREMAN:
This brings up another point, which is that when women reach a certain equilibrium, in the workplace, among the voting public, in the media, etc., they force changes that also change the type of man who succeeds in those settings. Thus the male executive, the male politician, the male creative is a different type than he was before this change. Upon reaching this equilibrium, women demand consensus, insulation from competition, passivity, in short the maternalization of their environment. They also act in a concerted and typically female way against men (and women) whose views are incompatible with these demands, and do what women do best: keep such people estranged from their "community".
In Western culture this equilibrium has had a marked effect on men, and is responsible for the manchild, the nerd, the metrosexual/hiptster, and of course the modern politician (modeled after local news anchors: sexless, benign, and unctuous). I expect the elevation of homosexuals is related to this change--who is less threatening to a female-oriented status quo than a feminized male? You see it in the boyish faces (and narcissistically sculpted bodies) of the latest generation of male movie actors.
These are all very good points, and I mostly agree. There's another mostly-ignored aspect to our society's gender confusion, however, and that's the ongoing masculinization of women. Shrill feminist androgynes like Andrea Dworkin have been agitating a 'transvaluation of all [feminine] values' for decades; where once quintessentially feminine traits such as passiveness, compassion, softness, grace, and outstanding beauty were encouraged among women, the modern woman is aggressive, 'strong', selfish, and uncaring about appearances. Far from trumpeting feminity, feminists are in effect masculinizing women, making them into inferior men. This is especially obvious in personal relationships - it's now common for women to act offended if you expect them to dress nicely and 'doll themselves up' for their men, and they pretend to be aloof and uninterested in terror of showing 'weakness' and admitting to themselves that, yes, they
need a man, or at least if they don't want to become 40-something spinsters with 12 cats and a dusty, useless womb. This isn't normal, nor is it the general case in countries outside of North America and a few countries in Western Europe. It's not entirely the fault of the feminists, either; relatively male-dominated Hollywood has glorified viragoes and 'strong women' for years (Thurman's character in 'Kill Bill' is the archetype here).
In short, if men are becoming less masculine, I think it's also true, although perhaps to a lesser extent, that women are becoming less feminine. Despite the acheivements of feminists, femininity -
true feminity - remains perhaps even less valued than before. And maybe this is partly what's driving the 'feminization' of men - robbed of their complementary role in society and in their personal lives as masculine partners to the feminine by masculinized women, they revert to feminine behavior to compensate, or else embrace a hyper-masculinized fratboy mentality (which is just as contemptible, and perhaps even more so).
It's important, also, to note that political misogyny - women are stupid, evil, weak, senseless, immoral, greedy, etc - is just as degenerate as radical feminism, because both pervert and despise the natural complementary relationship of man to woman. With exceptions, Woman preserves, improves, repairs, and maintains the created order of Man and his God. Men may more often be 'idea-men' and great thinkers, but a civilization without idea-men and great thinkers can survive. A civilization without anyone devoted to its upkeep and regeneration cannot, and it is the woman that provides this role. Those who point to the relative rarity of female authors, poets, scientists, philosophers, artists, etc. as evidence of female inferiority are missing this point.
I'm also not so sure that nerds are a consequence of feminizing trends...many researchers have noted that the traits that typify 'spectrum disorders' - perverse literal-mindedness, an obsession with objects and lists, poor social skills - are pathological exaggerations of male traits.
As for women's suffrage, I agree that it's always been a bad idea. After suffrage, but before the pernicious influence of feminism, women merely copied their husband's ballots - which rendered their newfound political 'freedom' moot. Now they follow the general trend of modern society in voting their emotional preferences, which isn't healthy either. The proper model of women's civic role and participation in wider society is the one that has been followed for centuries and reflects, again, the complementary unity of feminine and masculine - men in the public sphere, women in the private sphere.
This post has been edited by mlad: 30 January 2010 - 09:26 PM